If you want to get your ex back, there are different ways to do that. Let’s find out what can help you to get your ex back.

Send a text

Before you call your ex, you can always send a text message. The text should be sweet and short. A direct and clear message will always help to put across your message. If you can think about something that you shared together, that will help you by warming her heart for you. If she responds to it, probably that is the first step towards rekindling your lost passion.

Take it slow

Do not try to rush things and go slow. Even if you have romanced her once, that does not mean you can simply start at 50 or 70. You will have to start from zero. You can propose getting together. But don’t be pushy about getting back together. Give it some time. You cannot force someone else to do something you want. You will have to respect them and let it play out at a normal pace.

Call her

Once you have completed the first two steps, you can now probably call her/him. It’s not necessary that only men have to call first. Anyone can call first. Probably you can suggest a cage till date by phone. Do not send any text or emails for that. It is important that he or she hears your voice and can understand the sincere effort that you are trying to put forward. Find out something what your ex loves and then schedule a casual date. It may be a movie, an art gallery opening, going out to a water park, visiting a new tea shop or anything else. If your ex accepts that offer, do not immediately believe that you to come back together. This is your chance to show your ex how improved you were from the last condition which might have been one of the reasons for breakup.

If you miss her, tell her

If you miss your ex, you should tell her. Whenever you meet her, we should tell her how much you miss her. You can start by asking the normal things that you remember about her and which she values a lot. It may be about her job, her dog, her girlfriends or anything else. As the date progresses, you will see some signs of whether she wants to be with you or not. If you see signs that she is warming up to you, you can tell her that you want her back. You can open your heart and see how she reacts to it. Vulnerability on your part may help you and improve your odds.

Own up

When you talk about and accept your shortcomings, it means a lot to the other person. It shows that you mature and you are aware of the problems you might have. First, find out if she’s showing any signs of openness. If she is doing that, than you can go one step ahead and accept the faults that you think you have. But you have to be very sincere in your apology because it will show. If you are not sincere, it’s easier for another person to see through it and then you will completely lose your only chance. Don’t worry about what wrongs she did because mentioning about them will not help you in any way. You will need to take responsibility for yourself and you to show that you are at least willing to change for her sake.

References

1. Ex Back Experts: How To Get Your Ex Back
2. Healthy Relationships in Adolescence
3. The effects of co-parenting relationships with ex-spouses on couples in step-families